members may choose to ignore or 'black list' other members who they do not wish to receive messages from. this list shows the top-25 black listed members in each category.
everyone gets black listed occasionally, so don't take it personally. if someone has been black-listed
a lot, it might mean that they're controversial, swim against the tide and are worth getting to know. it might be that they have a lot of pissed off ex-girlfriends (or boyfriends) online. it might also mean that they're just plain creepy. don't judge them by this list though, write them and get their side of the story!